Social media can be a scary place. Trolls, cyber bullies, hate groups – it’s no wonder most of our parents are technophobes and the older generations boast about how things were “better in my day!”.
Well of course it was better in your day Susan, the bank was handing out zero deposit mortgages like nobody’s business, the planet wasn’t dying at a catastrophic rate and you could buy two pints down the pub with a fiver and still get change!
Anyway, yes, social media can be a breeding ground for negativity. One minute you’re bombarded by online slanging matches between strangers on Twitter, the next you’re stewing in a pit of jealousy over beautiful influencers showing off their perfect(-ly filtered) lives on Instagram. It’s a minefield.
It doesn’t have to be that way, though. These sites give us the option to mute, block or unfollow people that make us feel, well, shit – and that’s brilliant! But what’s even better is finding people who make social media a bearable – maybe even positive – place to hang out.
I’ve enjoyed scrolling through my phone so much more since I made a conscious effort to erase the trashbags and put some bright, affirmative, supportive women at the forefront of my feed.
Now whenever I flick between my apps (the modern day equivalent of channel hopping while the ads are on, right?) I’m confronted by educated words of self-love and self-confidence, photos of women who are happy in their own skin and promote body positivity and blog posts bursting with advice and encouragement and reassurance.
I know social media is always going to be dangerous to navigate – you can never be sure when a bigoted idiot will pop up spouting nonsense and retweeting Piers Morgan with the caption “He just has the balls to say what the rest of us were thinking!” You can’t win ‘em all.
But by just filling my timeline with people who make me feel good about myself, inspire me to do better and brighten my day I’ve found my phone a much more pleasant companion.
Let’s be honest, we spend half our lives with our heads buried in social media so we might as well make it half decent place to be!
If you want to check out some of the awesome people I follow, here are my top picks!
- Lucy Mountain – calling out fake diets and making fun of fitness fads (@thefashionfitnessfoodie)
- Stephanie Yeboah – plus-size blogger advocating fat acceptance (@nerdabouttown)
- Helen Anderson – all about that self-love life! (@helenanderz)
- Amy Kennedy – vegan food at budget prices (@amythevegan)
- Jen Brett – stamping out diet culture and promoting positive body image (@jenbretty)
- Emily Clarkson – straight-talking blogger who oozes confidence (@EmilyClarkson)
- Jameela Jamil – star of ‘The Good Place’, creator of the @i_weigh movement and voice for loving the skin your in (@jameelajamil)
- Carrie Hope Fletcher – musical theatre star and general ray of sunshine (@CarrieHFletcher)